Bluebear41

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

18+ NSFW

Hope all is well!

I am happily partnered so I am NOT looking for the following:

NO phishing
NO findom
NO Tributes
NO blackmail
NO c2c
NO Hookups

I am looking for:
Chat 7am - 3pm Mon - Thurs

Hi I am here on xHamster because I am kinky haha.

Here for mostly chats ONLY - Usually weekdays Mon - Thurs 7am - 3pm availability.

Typically I am bored and lonely during the day and a little depressed so chats and connections helps keep my brain churning and can be stimulatingly enjoyable with the right people. Or hopefully so.

Although I am happy to chat with guys and can role-play either way - happy to chat with women as well and I am chilled about sex and easy going as far as chats go. Nothing is really taboo unless its overly gross or bizarre.....not legal etc.

I also have some health issues that limit me in some ways and that has sort of piped into my online persona, depression and so on. Sometimes I make whacky posts that are personally degrading because I have a little self-hate brewing. Trying to work on that. But I don't aim any of my baggage at others. Always chill and respectful.

The Basics:

-Not really looking for a c2c buddy. I am not really into that.
-Mon-Thurs 7am-3pm
-sex chats or talk about the weather, movies, music or the latest gossip floating around online. (Sex Talk can be: Straight, bi, gay)
-Porn watching: Edging, masturbation, role-play, chat etc
-I am more happy to chat about non-sex subjects but I do realize this is a Porn site lol
-Respect & Discretion Assured

Can also connect on other chat platforms. I do have lots of personal photos to share - nudes and underwear and a mix of others. You can share if you want but it is not necessary. I understand people like to share themselves or expose themselves to others sometimes as well so for that reason I allow people to share to appease their own kink and validate them.

Feel free to DM me if you would like to know more.

Otherwise I wish each of you the very best!

My Stats:

Name: Blair
Location: Halifax NS Canada
Born: 1971 Toronto, Canada
Age: 54yo
Ethnicity: Caucasian
HT: 5'11"
WT: 195lbs
Cut?: Yes
Orientation: Hetero, Fluid for chats
Identifies: Hetero but Heteroflexible for chats and RP
Pronouns: he/him, they/them
Position: sub-bottom
Role: NA - versatile for role-play
Body: Average
Hairy: Bear
Toys: NA
Cross-Dress: No
HIV Status: Negative

== Results from bdsm test ==
85% Exhibitionist
82% Experimentalist
80% Voyeur
55% Primal (Prey)
54% Brat
32% Masochist
32% Vanilla
29% Switch

When I want it
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekdays

Where I want it
Online-Cyber-chat

I'm into
3 Way / Groups, Ass Play, Barebacking, Cybersex, Exhibition, Fucking, Jerk Off, Nipple Play, Nudism, Rimming, Role Play, Sucking, Voyeur

I'm seeking
18+ people

I'm turned on by
Ass, curves, Dark, long Hair, pony-tails, Cum Eating, Facials, Glory Holes, Lingerie, Photos/Video, Porn, Rubber/PVC, Sports Gear, Suits, Underwear, Uniforms

I'm turned off by
Smokers poor hygiene. Abusive weirdos.....CBT, Pain, extreme, gross things and kinks that are NOT legal etc

Blair
August 2025

"Time is what we want most, but what we use worst.”

"It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it.”

"Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend."

“When it comes to sex: some men treat women as objects; some women treat objects as men.”

And remember.......

“There are some socks that shouldn't be washed by your mom."

WARNING: If you don't take the 30 seconds to read my profile and proceed with asking questions that are answered here (or if you start making assumptions when the answers are in my profile etc) - I will IGNORE or BLOCK You!